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	<description>Magic for Pick Up Artists: How To Use Magic to Demonstrate Value, Build Attraction, Charm &#38; Seduce Any Girl &#38; Without Looking &#34;Try-Hard&#34;</description>
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		<title>By: Skull1996</title>
		<link>http://www.pumaskills.com/blog/humorlike-magicdont-overdo-it/comment-page-1/#comment-738</link>
		<dc:creator>Skull1996</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 23:06:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>STOP ME SPAMMED ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!</description>
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		<title>By: Skull1996</title>
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		<dc:creator>Skull1996</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 18:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>YES it spammed please stop me link on my Email!!! please Thanks YOU :&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 04:06:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do this often. Very powerful results if it is calibrated correctly. It helps women to see that you are &quot;real&quot;, and condifent in your own skin. Nice article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do this often. Very powerful results if it is calibrated correctly. It helps women to see that you are &#8220;real&#8221;, and condifent in your own skin. Nice article.</p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 05:13:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>NICE! its really quite important for a confident guy to make fun about himself for not seeming arrogant</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NICE! its really quite important for a confident guy to make fun about himself for not seeming arrogant</p>
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		<title>By: Magicdream</title>
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		<dc:creator>Magicdream</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 19:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, the most appreciated humor and the safest is self-depreciating humor. Why making fun of yourself (in a positive way of course)? Because it is THE LEAST OFFENSIVE SUBJECT, it shows you’re easygoing and also brings many other benefits.And By the rule of reciprocity the woman would soon reveal her inner world, or make fun of herself, which means you two are a lot closer than when you first meet.
The RULE OF RECIPROCITY applies in all culture and states that when someone gives you something you will feel obliged to return the favor (give-and-yake).
“One of the most potent weapons of influence around us is the rule for reciprocation. The rule says that we should try to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us.” —Robert B. Cialdini, author of The Psychology of Persuasion.

 Humor is the most attractive quality a man can possess. Humor is the shortcut to attraction and when you can make women laugh, you&#039;ve opened the door to all kinds of possibilities (don’t be naughty and get me wrong here, I don&#039;t speak about sex possibility. LOL)

On the other hand, generally, human beings always look for remaining consistent. It&#039;s psychologically impossible to dislike the person the person who has already made you laugh genuinely several times, because humans can&#039;t handle the incongruity between laughter (liking someone) and disliking someone.

Now, let&#039;s talk a bit about how using humor:

 1. Never show your trump card too early: never begin a joke by indicating it&#039;s one, such as: &quot;let me tell you something funny&quot; or &quot;you&#039;re gonna love this joke&quot; ...

2. Smile. Don&#039;t laugh: if you laugh at your own joke, you may spoil the punch line. So you can smile, but don&#039;t laugh.

3. If you don&#039;t get any laugh at all from the woman, turn it around and make it into an opportunity for laughter or an opportunity to bust her balls. You can even &quot;insult&quot; the listner if you&#039;re bold enough. Say something like: &quot;I knew it! This&#039;s the kind of response you get from a &quot;british&quot; girl…&quot; assuming she told you she&#039;s from UK  (it can be any information she&#039;s disclosed to you so far.) Do it happily by using the right body language and confidently; you don&#039;t want that she thinks that you&#039;re really insulting her intelligence or her origin!!!

4. By staying cocky and funny, women (especially the hotties) will laugh, will get frustrated that you aren&#039;t playing to them, and finally crack and show that they like you. Remember that MOST WOMEN like to be teased. So act on your terms BUT when it comes to sex ALWAYS PAY ATTENTION and Learn what the woman likes

5. Stick to the 3- second rule (the first impression) in order to establish an image of decisiveness and strong confidence. Here&#039;s a trick that you can use; you can approach a woman as soon as you see her and say: &quot;Remember me?&quot; She&#039;s invariably reply, &quot;No.&quot; And you can say, &quot;You will.&quot; The next time you walk by her (maybe in a few minutes) you can say, &quot;Remember me now?&quot; and smile.

But sometimes, when you&#039;re in a singles environment like a bar, the best time to approach a woman could be after she&#039;s been there for at least 30 minutes and has had a chance to relax and begin enjoying the scene. So just act according the situation.

6. Remember, the only power any woman has in your life is that which you give her. So don&#039;t give away any of your power. Keep it for you. Be in control of your reality, and don&#039;t forget, this&#039;s your show and she&#039;s a guest in it.

Good luck</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, the most appreciated humor and the safest is self-depreciating humor. Why making fun of yourself (in a positive way of course)? Because it is THE LEAST OFFENSIVE SUBJECT, it shows you’re easygoing and also brings many other benefits.And By the rule of reciprocity the woman would soon reveal her inner world, or make fun of herself, which means you two are a lot closer than when you first meet.<br />
The RULE OF RECIPROCITY applies in all culture and states that when someone gives you something you will feel obliged to return the favor (give-and-yake).<br />
“One of the most potent weapons of influence around us is the rule for reciprocation. The rule says that we should try to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us.” —Robert B. Cialdini, author of The Psychology of Persuasion.</p>
<p> Humor is the most attractive quality a man can possess. Humor is the shortcut to attraction and when you can make women laugh, you&#8217;ve opened the door to all kinds of possibilities (don’t be naughty and get me wrong here, I don&#8217;t speak about sex possibility. LOL)</p>
<p>On the other hand, generally, human beings always look for remaining consistent. It&#8217;s psychologically impossible to dislike the person the person who has already made you laugh genuinely several times, because humans can&#8217;t handle the incongruity between laughter (liking someone) and disliking someone.</p>
<p>Now, let&#8217;s talk a bit about how using humor:</p>
<p> 1. Never show your trump card too early: never begin a joke by indicating it&#8217;s one, such as: &#8220;let me tell you something funny&#8221; or &#8220;you&#8217;re gonna love this joke&#8221; &#8230;</p>
<p>2. Smile. Don&#8217;t laugh: if you laugh at your own joke, you may spoil the punch line. So you can smile, but don&#8217;t laugh.</p>
<p>3. If you don&#8217;t get any laugh at all from the woman, turn it around and make it into an opportunity for laughter or an opportunity to bust her balls. You can even &#8220;insult&#8221; the listner if you&#8217;re bold enough. Say something like: &#8220;I knew it! This&#8217;s the kind of response you get from a &#8220;british&#8221; girl…&#8221; assuming she told you she&#8217;s from UK  (it can be any information she&#8217;s disclosed to you so far.) Do it happily by using the right body language and confidently; you don&#8217;t want that she thinks that you&#8217;re really insulting her intelligence or her origin!!!</p>
<p>4. By staying cocky and funny, women (especially the hotties) will laugh, will get frustrated that you aren&#8217;t playing to them, and finally crack and show that they like you. Remember that MOST WOMEN like to be teased. So act on your terms BUT when it comes to sex ALWAYS PAY ATTENTION and Learn what the woman likes</p>
<p>5. Stick to the 3- second rule (the first impression) in order to establish an image of decisiveness and strong confidence. Here&#8217;s a trick that you can use; you can approach a woman as soon as you see her and say: &#8220;Remember me?&#8221; She&#8217;s invariably reply, &#8220;No.&#8221; And you can say, &#8220;You will.&#8221; The next time you walk by her (maybe in a few minutes) you can say, &#8220;Remember me now?&#8221; and smile.</p>
<p>But sometimes, when you&#8217;re in a singles environment like a bar, the best time to approach a woman could be after she&#8217;s been there for at least 30 minutes and has had a chance to relax and begin enjoying the scene. So just act according the situation.</p>
<p>6. Remember, the only power any woman has in your life is that which you give her. So don&#8217;t give away any of your power. Keep it for you. Be in control of your reality, and don&#8217;t forget, this&#8217;s your show and she&#8217;s a guest in it.</p>
<p>Good luck</p>
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		<title>By: Jacob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jacob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 21:21:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thats some handy info right there.......</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thats some handy info right there&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeremy Gates</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeremy Gates</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 19:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I thought it was a very good article thankyou. I beleive that stuff can be used outside of dating or flirting as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought it was a very good article thankyou. I beleive that stuff can be used outside of dating or flirting as well.</p>
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