How To Approach Women And Make A Little Beer Money Too

How to approach women in bars?  Without rejection?  Approaching women can be a nightmare for most guys. (Always was for me anyway).

That’s why today I’m going to reveal a pretty fun and original way that I (used to do it t)o get over my nerves. Maybe it will help some of you too.

The GOAL of this method is not to “get the girl”…The Goal is to Get Over Approach Anxiety in a fun way

If you’re already able to easily approach women without any nerves, ignore this.  But if this is a huge sticking point for you and you want something fun…then it just MIGHT help.  And that’s what I’m here for.

It’s simple, and it takes balls…but not as many balls as walking up to a girl with a stupid “pick up line.”

You know what it feels like when you see a woman across the bar and are dying to get over there and talk to her.  But you’re not sure what to say…or you’ve rehearsed it all in your mind and now you’re drawing a blank.

Hello Sweaty Palms!

Yep…that happened to me too.

BUT since I’ve always been the type of person who likes to find shortcuts to success, I developed a gambling game around it with a few friends who had similar nerves.

Here’s How The Alphabet Approach Gamble Works

If there were 3 of us, we’d split the Alphabet up into thirds.

So I would take A-H for instance, my two friends would take I-P, and Q-Z (Sucked to be the guy with Q-Z…so we rotated)

Then, I would go first.

The two guys would point out a woman, ideally an attractive or semi-attractive one at first.

I would walk over, smile and say.  “Hi, I’m Brad…And you are….???”

They would give me their name.  Let’s say it was Candace.  Well, that starts with a “C.”  Since I have A-H…I win.

So I say, “Amazing to meet you Candace…now I have to go settle up with my friends.  But I’m really glad to meet you and even happier that your name is Candace”

I leave immediately, walk to my friends (who are in eye-sight of Candace) and they each hand me a dollar.

If I had picked a girl named Zelda (God help me)…I would have paid THEM a dollar each.

9 times out of 10 when the girl sees the money being changed hands…she walks over and says, “What the hell is going on?”

Then we laugh and I say:  “Candace these are my friends…sorry to get you caught up in our boredom killer.  We were tired of standing around talking about the same ol’ stuff…so we started playing the name game.  I had A-H…your name starts with a C…so I won.  If your name was Zelda…I would have owed THESE turkeys money.  (Laugh)  You know what it’s like to stand around and get bored of the same ol’ stuff don’t you Candace?”

You’ll almost always get a positive reaction…or they’ll ask questions like how much did you win.  SOMETIMES, if she’s cute I say…You wanna play with us?  We’ll give you a piece of the Alphabet too and you have to approach dudes the same way.

This brings her into our world…has fun and shows we’re not trying to “pick her up.”

Here’s why it works to squash approach anxiety

Because when you’re only focused on a name and not the follow up to that…you could care less about getting rejected.  You’re after the money.  But you start to notice you’re having fun and that approaching people really isn’t that hard.  Once in a while you run into a girl who’s REALLY friendly and you don’t even leave to pay the bet…you just start talking and things go well.

Try it…you might like it.

If nothing else, it’s fun and breaks up the monotony…and that’s what I’m all about.

In fact, SOME of you have probably seen my all time BEST and most fun way to approach women.  If you have seen my free presentation on this…you can check it out here.

How to Approach Groups Of Hot Women  <—–

That free presentation will give you my all time favorite way to literally OWN a bar or nightclub.

Hope you enjoy

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